What you value most in a relationship is the feeling of comfort. You are sure that next to your loved one you should be calm and comfortable. You do not like showdown in a raised voice and always try to get around sharp corners in relations peacefully, negotiating. For you, the girl's appearance alone will always be not enough, so you focus on what her soul is like and how well she is brought up. If you feel that your temperaments diverge, then you can hardly expect that you will stay together for a long time...