What you will pay particular attention to on the first date is the style of communication of the girl. If she behaves too loosely then you, most likely are not interested. Its is not that you are attracted to absolute modest women, but if she does not fit into your criteria of behavior, especially if this is the first date, it is obviously a turnoff. If the girl is moderately modest, but is able to keep the conversation going then most likely the second date will follow the first date....